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Winning my wife back

Hi Dr. Ellen, I am amazed!!!! I got your program in the post yesterday and I have listened to the first 4 CD’s and I can’t believe the effect it is already having, I am on my way to solve my marriage problems. I own a motorcycle clothing shop and last year my wife bought the Christmas decorations and dressed the Christmas windows. This year, because we have split and my wife is in a new relationship, I have had to dress the windows myself. After listening to some of your program, I decided to text my wife and let her know that I had dressed the windows myself and although I had done an okay job, it was a poor in comparison to the windows that she dressed last year and told her that she was great at making the windows look classy and Christmassy without looking cheesy. You cannot imagine my surprise when she instantly text me back saying, “thank you.” You cannot also imagine my surprise when at closing time, I looked out of one of my windows and saw my wife looking in the windows. I ran out to her and asked her to come in out of the cold. She came in and starting to talk to me about different things and I complimented her on certain things and she looked me up and down and said, “There is something different about you, but I can’t say what it is.” I knew it was your marriage counseling program and the belief in myself it gave me. I was now looking at her through the eyes of the man that fell in love with her. After all, I hadn’t changed my appearance. I am now uplifted as I believe now that I can win my wife back; not only win my wife back but also have her fall in love with me and stay in love with me for the rest of my happy life. Yours gratefully- Pat F.

I must admit that when I first heard about this program I was skeptical.  My wife and I had been married for 15 years, and I really thought that it was time to throw in the towel.  We had very much become two entities co-existing on the same plain.  We saw each other, we occasionally would give each other a little peck on the cheek, but we were not a married couple we had been reduced to being roommates.  I had too much respect for myself to cheat on my wife, although, I had begun thinking about it, and eventually just thought that divorce was going to be inevitable.

Well, obviously my wife and I both realized that we were heading down the path of no return, with a non-existant sex life and barely talking at all, my wife had the good sense to get the program that changed our marriage forever.

I knew that we hadn’t been passionate about each other but I wasn’t really sure why.  I didn’t even realize how powerful just kissing, I mean really kissing my wife could be.  Since instituting the 10 second kiss into our marriage several times a day, the passion is flowing again.  Honestly, I thought that getting my marriage back on track was going to be near impossible, however in just a few weeks we are having more sex, more laughter and just honestly enjoying each other’s company again.  Believe me the kissing works as to other things in this incredible program.  I just can’t believe that a marriage that I was about to throw in the towel on, has done such a complete turn around.  I feel like a newlywed all over again, thanks Dr. Ellen, you have been an amazing catalyst to getting our marriage back on track.