http://www.lightherfire.com Save Marriage from Marriage Problems-Marriage Advice Thu, 25 Jun 2009 14:52:06 +0000 http://backend.userland.com/rss092 en Men need sex, but so do women.  Most men think that women don't need sex, however this is not really so.  For a man, the act of sexual intercourse reaffirms their belief in the love that they share with their spouse.  For women, however, they need a certain amount of ... http://www.lightherfire.com/2009/06/25/sex-vs-romance/ When Alex married Sara, he knew what he was getting, or at least he thought so.  He took the vows seriously, and has continued to remain faithful to her, despite some of the problems in their marriage.  His biggest problem however, is Sara's weight.  At first when she gained a ... http://www.lightherfire.com/2009/06/18/i-said-for-better-or-worsebut-this-is-just-too-much/ Many believe that couples that have been together for many, many years, have just not faced the difficulties that those who have divorced have faced.  You might be surprised to learn that longevity in a marriage is not created by an absence of marriage problems, but by the actual marriage ... http://www.lightherfire.com/2009/06/12/longevity-in-marriage/ Marriage is a commitment.  A lifetime promise to another person to stick by them no matter what happens.  It is easy to make the commitment when you are all gaga over each other.  Then it is yes, yes, yeeesssss.  But somewhere along the line, you see them sick and cranky.  ... http://www.lightherfire.com/2009/06/04/making-the-most-of-your-marriage/ Many times when first meeting someone, we tend to put our best foot forward, after all we want them to like us and to show us their approval.  Sometimes, though, when we are in this beginning "getting to know you" phase, we pretend to be something that we aren't.  We ... http://www.lightherfire.com/2009/05/29/marriage-takes-work-but-not-loss-of-self/ A good marriage is built on good communication.  Many couples experience marriage problems when the communication begins to break down.  One of the biggest problems in the communication of feuding couples is the blame game.  Everyone feels the need to put the fault on the other person.  This is why ... http://www.lightherfire.com/2009/05/22/taking-the-blame-out-of-your-marriage/ Sometimes things occur in a marriage or in life in general that may force you to be separated from your spouse for a while.  For some this is heading off to war, family issues, or even a separation due to marriage problems.  When you return after a significant absence, you ... http://www.lightherfire.com/2009/05/15/reconnecting-after-separation/ Obviously, communication in all areas of your relationship will help make the act of physical love more enjoyable.  Communication in the bedroom is equally as important to both male and females, and understanding your spouses need and erogenous zones can help you both maximize your enjoyment in your sex life. The ... http://www.lightherfire.com/2009/05/08/being-a-better-lover/ What first attracts us to our spouse is important, it is either something about them, usually a physical attribute, but this is only the kick off of the relationship.  While there is nothing wrong with being physically attracted to your wife, this is not the glue of the relationship and ... http://www.lightherfire.com/2009/04/29/respect-friendship-create-a-good-marriage/ Many men seem to think that this is the answer to pleasing a woman, but really this should be the least of your concerns.  Once married, you will truly realize that there is a lot more to pleasing your wife then just finding the G spot in bed.  It is ... http://www.lightherfire.com/2009/04/26/finding-the-g-spot/