Save Marriage from Marriage Problems-Marriage Advice
6 Jul
I wanted to share a success story with you after having listened to your Light Her Fire program. My wife and I have been married for 31 years and after all this time you could say that things were pretty predictable and we had your typical marriage problems. I was at the airport, coming home from a business trip and I thought about getting her a card (which I wouldn’t normally do). I also included a note which said I brought her 3 presents: The first to tell her how I feel about her, the second to say how sweet she is, and the third to say how loving she was. The first was a small bag of peanuts I saved from the flight. I covered up the “pea” to say that I was “nuts” about her. The second was a delicious chocolate cookie I saved from the flight to say how “sweet she was.” The third was a box of Good and Plenty (these are a favorite of hers and an idea of yours) to say that loving her was “good and plenty.” (Total investment in these presents was under $5 and the payoff was equal to an expensive piece of jewelry.) I left the room after giving her the card and presents. When I returned she was wiping a couple of tears away (she almost never cries). I then sat down to ask her how she was doing, how her job was going, etc. She talked on and on as I listened and asked more questions. The evening turned out to be a very romantic one, just as you predicted it would be. What fun! I listen to the program often as a resource to remind me how physical I am and how psychological she is. It’s really that simple. Thanks – Jonathan R.